If you've read the blog, I told you about a guy named Caleb who I'd pretty much log onto Grindr to talk to exclusively. Well, he's still around, but we haven't seen each other since then. This is how that played out:
So after the date, we've moved to texting, namely since he hasn't been on Grindr that much. We probably have a few exchanges a day, nothing big really. Just seeing how the day is, and continuing the conversation where we left off. The next weekend rolls around and he's busy all weekend. The next week comes and we talk about the next time we'd want to see each other. He tells me that he's pretty swamped with school (med school nonetheless, which I completely understand but am frustrated with) and that when finals are over with, we'd do something. At this point, I'm just thinking that he doesn't want to see me again (emotions talking, not logic) and I tell him he picks the next time he wants to do something. Less than a week goes by without talking so I text him if he's picked a time. He asks if the next day would be fine, but I'd already made plans with J (also talked about him a while back) to go grab dinner. I told him we could afterward if he wanted, but he said the day after instead. It's agreed. The day after, we'd grab a drink after I get off work. The day of comes, and we're talking about places to go. But then he informs me he's been sick in bed all day with a sore throat and probably shouldn't go out.
I'm bummed. Beyond belief. I play the scenario like a little girl and "forget to text back" until later that evening. For some reason, it makes me feel like I have the upper hand when I need to reply and don't. Don't ask me why, I just do. But after consulting J about it, he probably is sick and I told him some sweet things (like the sweet guy I am) and we'll meet up again.
Do I really think we'll meet in again? Yes, about 67.77% of me thinks we will. The other 33.33% thinks we'll meet and then that'll be the end. I'll keep you updated.
Friday, December 23, 2011
My apologies.. Plus Santa Jake.
I've been really needing to blog lately, got lots of stuff to discuss. Since I've started this new job, I've been absolutely dead tired when I get home and not wanting to look at a computer screen for another second. If you couldn't tell, that's what I do now. It pays ridiculously well, so I'll stick it out for the time being. Its one of those companies that looks great on your resume, so I want to give them at least 6 months to see if I can move departments or something of the sort. I'll post them all separately here in the next day or so, but this one is to give my apologies and to spread a little Christmas cheer. Went shopping for the parents and grandparents and ended up buying things for myself of course. Always happens. Figured out the cologne I wanted, a sick Fossil watch I'm now wanting really bad, even if I have to help pay for it, and some clothes. We'll see if Santa will be good to me. Speaking of Santa...
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Threesomes...
What is the deal with threesomes? I've had 3 guys ask me to have a threesome with them and their boyfriend this week. Maybe its the size of the bulge in my Grindr pic? Yeah, that probably has a lot to do with it. These power bottoms becoming boyfriends then realizing that they need a top. Not to say I am a total top.. actually I don't know what I like to do.. but that's besides the point right now. Then out of the blue a couple days ago this happens:
I get a text from a guy I hooked up with in September. Check out the texts:
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T: I want to watch u and another dude play around. If you decide to have sex with anyone. It could be a fun "group" hang out. Let me get comfortable with things. Crazy request I know.
UnderWraps: That could be interesting. Lots of hesitation, though. What do you mean comfortable with things?
T: I'm hesitant to "get" with a guy. Watching and touching would help me so much. Especially if it was a white guy having sex with you since I could imagine it being me having sex with a blk skin dude.
UnderWraps: Gotcha. I'm hesitant because I'd want to be comfortable with the guy. And if it were to happen, it'd have to be a white/mixed guy. Not attracted to black guys.
BLOGGER'S NOTE: Yes, I'm black and not attracted to black guys.
T: I know. Do you have a white or mixed friend who would be okay with that?
UnderWraps: Not sure. You on Grindr?
T: Nope
UnderWraps: Check out the app.
T: I might. I just want an honest answer from you tho. If u dont see urself doing that then let me know. So we dont waste each others time. If u are down the please tell me and find out from a friend
BLOGGER'S NOTE: A lot to ask from me at this point I'm thinking..
UnderWraps: Calm down bro. My honest answer right now is I don't know. Especially after not hearing from you in a while then this out of the blue. I've never had someone watch me have sex, so like I said, I'm hesitant. You can take that as wasting your time, it's fine. You're not wasting my time by texting.
T: K. But you're either into it or not. If ur hesitant then ur not it sounds like.
UnderWraps: If you want to put it like that, then no, I'm not into it.
T: lol
UnderWraps: Ha, just saying.
T: K I can respect ur decision tho I'm bummed
UnderWraps: yeah, sorry man. Why so hesitant on being with a guy?
T: I don't want to be gay. I might like it more than pussy
UnderWraps: Are you saying that hypothetically if you get with a guy you might like it too much?
T: Yes
UnderWraps: Eh, well you've already done a little bit though. Did you enjoy it then?
T: Yah
UnderWraps: Gotcha. But you enjoy having sex with them right?
T: It's nice yes
UnderWraps: So what's the issue with liking both?
T: It's an issue. Why u psychoanalyzing it
UnderWraps: Ha, you're the one that doesn't want to be gay
T: Lol. Let's do the "three" some or whatever. It would be so hot and you can feel comfortable cause it would be me and another dude u comfortable with. Not some loser off the streets
UnderWraps: Ha, maybe you should look at some interracial gay porn. Well I have to find the right guy first. That'll be a challenge.
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There's some more.. but it's not worth typing out. Pretty much he tells me about a black guy he think I would be into that he met about 6 months ago. Then I list off a couple guys that I've been talking to that might be down. I have T check out their profiles on Adam4Adam and see if he likes any of them. At this point, I'm going along with this plan, cause I don't think it's gonna happen. We'll see if he texts back again this week or in another month.
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Boyce Avenue
Alright, I've been in love with these guys from the get go. Not only because their handsome, but because they are very talented and they pretty much started the YouTube cover band revolution, in my opinion. They continue to blow me away with each cover and original song they play. I want to catch them on tour, but are never in my area. Now that I'll have some bigger paychecks coming my way, I probably will fly to see them somewhere.
Here's one of their latest covers. Much success to Alejandro, Daniel and Fabian Manzano.
Here's one of their latest covers. Much success to Alejandro, Daniel and Fabian Manzano.
Weekend Update: Friday's Double Feature
Friday. Friday. Gotta get down on Friday.
I couldn't resist. Orientation with the new job that morning. I'm excited about the position and I start on Monday. More on the guy that I told you about in my last post. He deserves a name...I'll go with Caleb. Caleb and I have been talking on a regular basis for the past 4-5 days. Honestly, he has been reason why I even log on to Grindr. So we're chatting and I ask if he'd want to meet up. Not for anything sexual, but just somewhere to talk to him more. I've seen his face and at this point, he'd not seen me at all. He says yes and we figure out a place to meet. After all that talk, he asks if I could send a picture of me just so he'd recognize me once we met at the restaurant. I felt really comfortable with him, and was more than happy to send him a pic. We talk for a little more, then he had to log off so he can visit with his family in town. I log off as well, then took a nap, just so more time could pass until that evening... I woke up really horny and decided to log back on to Grindr to see if I could have a little fun before dinner. Now in hindsight, that probably makes me seem like a whore, but I don't care. Just a horny young guy living my life as I want to.
As soon as I log on, I spotted a picture of a guy flexing his bicep. Started chatting him up and we agree to meet at his hotel (conveniently three miles away from where I was meeting Caleb for dinner.) He was an older guy, but very handsome and sexy for his age. As I was driving to the hotel, I started to wonder about what the hell I was doing. There were multiple times during the drive over I had second thoughts.
"Is this guy gonna hurt me? Do I tell Caleb about this? This is going to be an interesting evening, can't wait to blog about this!"
Alright, so I wasn't all nervous. But enough to where I brought a knife with me just in case this guy tried something crazy. Hey, I gotta be safe in more ways than one.. right? He texts me the room number as I pull in the parking lot. I make my way in and head to the elevator. Get to the fourth floor, knock on the door. He took a little bit to answer, and for some reason I thought,
"I wonder if this is a undercover sting operation? Oh wait, there was no money involved, I'm good."
He opens and he's just as I described. I take my jacket off on the couch, make our way to the bed and just talk for a bit. Talked about the upcoming big game on Saturday, the NBA season, what he does (attorney), what I will be doing, etc. Then we get a little touchy-feely. Touching leads to kissing, leading back to touching. Touching to clothes coming off. He was a great kisser, something that seems to be a little hard to find. At least for me it is. At this point we're down to underwear. He kisses and licks all the way south and I'm hard as a rock at this point. He begins blowing me. He was a little rough at first until I had to coach him a little. While he's blowing me, he rubs on my nipples and chest. Great level of detail he had with his hands. Then we get into a 69. Now I'm not blowing my own horn, but I give great head. So during the course of me blowing him, he stops me at least three times. I love giving pleasure and since I was receiving at the same time, it was great. Seeing him respond to me blowing made him that much more excited, thus making me more excited too.
He then asks if I wanted to fuck him. I had never fucked a guy, so I declined. He knew I hadn't before hand, so he was cool with me not wanting to. We rolled around kissing and touching and jacking each other off for a good amount of time. We finally get to a place where we were both ready to cum. We both get into a good rhythm and I come first. Probably one of the best orgasms I've had in a while. I'm ready for him to cum, so I continue to jack him when he stops me to grab a towel for me. He wipes me up and gives me a final suck. Felt amazing. I continue to jack him until he came. Good explosion for him as well. He wipes himself and he asks if I wanted to take a shower before I "met my friends for dinner." I had plenty of time, so we take a shower together and continued to talk. He washes me all over and I do the same.
We had great conversation afterward and he tells me he comes back in town every couple of weeks if I wanted to do this again. I told him to let me know whenever he's back and we'll go from there. I was a little vague in my answer just because I didn't want to get his hopes up (or mine for that matter) for us hooking up again. We say our goodbyes and I exit the room. As I leave the room, I see a man and woman (obviously a couple) head my way. I automatically felt like I was making the walk of shame down the hallway as I give a nod to the guy. He smiled and gave the same nod. I'm sure he knew what went down, but I didn't care. As I made my way to the lobby, the receptionist gave an extra happy "Have a good night." Of course I wanted to tell her I already did and on to the next part of the good night, but I refrained. I was sure everyone knew what I just did in that hotel room, which is kind of funny to think about. I get to my car and let out a huge laugh. Don't know why. I just felt like laughing.
I make my way down the road to dinner. I was about 15 minutes early, so I just sat in my car and waited. The restaurant was surprisingly empty by the looks of how many cars were in the parking lot. I parked in a position where I could see the door as well as anyone entering the parking lot. Time passes. More time passes. About 20 minutes later, I decided to call Caleb to see if he'd gotten lost. Ring. Ring. Ring. Ring. Ring....
Caleb: "Hey, you here?"
Me: "Yeah, in the parking lot. You're here too?"
Caleb: "Just walked inside."
Me: "Oh, I must have missed you..."
At this point, I'm getting out of the car and he walks outside. Immediately smile at each other and walk inside. Make our way to our seats. I could tell he was a little bit nervous and to be honest, so was I. He was exactly the way he was in his picture. Cute. Not in a "sort of cute, but I'll say cute anyway because I have to be nice when you sent me a pic" but a "better than the picture cute." And his shyness was very cute as well. We make small talk with little awkward moments in between. Don't get me wrong, the moments weren't that awkward. Just small pauses in conversation. I like those moments. Just to see what the recover move or topic is going to be. After a couple drinks in, Caleb becomes more comfortable and we once again, talk about anything and everything. After those drinks and the water I ordered, I had to go to the restroom. And as a guy that knows a little touch goes a long way, I touch his shoulder as I pass him. I get back and we continue conversation.
It was just a solid good first meeting. I don't know what else to say besides that. We pay, get up and head out the door. I ask him what he's doing after this and he said he's going home to crash since he was up all day. (Which I'd already known from talking to him earlier.) I was fine with that, I was ready to go home too. He tells me he had a great time and hoped that he hadn't scared me away. I told him that I don't scare easily and told him that we'd have to do this again soon. He agreed, gave a big hug and we parted ways.
Pretty sure I was on cloud 9 the entire way home. I get in the drive way and I get this text:
"It was great meeting you tonight. I had a really good time. :-)"
I reply: "Hey, just stepped in the door. The feeling is mutual. I had an awesome time. I'm making it my mission to get you to like some type of vegetable! :-)"
He doesn't like vegetables at all. I absolutely love them. I'll get him to love them too.. ha.
Needless to say, we've been texting since then. No plans to meet back up at the moment, but I'm sure it'll happen soon.
I think that's a good enough post for now. Be sure to comment or email me if you want.
- Under Wraps
underwraps87@gmail.com
I couldn't resist. Orientation with the new job that morning. I'm excited about the position and I start on Monday. More on the guy that I told you about in my last post. He deserves a name...I'll go with Caleb. Caleb and I have been talking on a regular basis for the past 4-5 days. Honestly, he has been reason why I even log on to Grindr. So we're chatting and I ask if he'd want to meet up. Not for anything sexual, but just somewhere to talk to him more. I've seen his face and at this point, he'd not seen me at all. He says yes and we figure out a place to meet. After all that talk, he asks if I could send a picture of me just so he'd recognize me once we met at the restaurant. I felt really comfortable with him, and was more than happy to send him a pic. We talk for a little more, then he had to log off so he can visit with his family in town. I log off as well, then took a nap, just so more time could pass until that evening... I woke up really horny and decided to log back on to Grindr to see if I could have a little fun before dinner. Now in hindsight, that probably makes me seem like a whore, but I don't care. Just a horny young guy living my life as I want to.
As soon as I log on, I spotted a picture of a guy flexing his bicep. Started chatting him up and we agree to meet at his hotel (conveniently three miles away from where I was meeting Caleb for dinner.) He was an older guy, but very handsome and sexy for his age. As I was driving to the hotel, I started to wonder about what the hell I was doing. There were multiple times during the drive over I had second thoughts.
"Is this guy gonna hurt me? Do I tell Caleb about this? This is going to be an interesting evening, can't wait to blog about this!"
Alright, so I wasn't all nervous. But enough to where I brought a knife with me just in case this guy tried something crazy. Hey, I gotta be safe in more ways than one.. right? He texts me the room number as I pull in the parking lot. I make my way in and head to the elevator. Get to the fourth floor, knock on the door. He took a little bit to answer, and for some reason I thought,
"I wonder if this is a undercover sting operation? Oh wait, there was no money involved, I'm good."
He opens and he's just as I described. I take my jacket off on the couch, make our way to the bed and just talk for a bit. Talked about the upcoming big game on Saturday, the NBA season, what he does (attorney), what I will be doing, etc. Then we get a little touchy-feely. Touching leads to kissing, leading back to touching. Touching to clothes coming off. He was a great kisser, something that seems to be a little hard to find. At least for me it is. At this point we're down to underwear. He kisses and licks all the way south and I'm hard as a rock at this point. He begins blowing me. He was a little rough at first until I had to coach him a little. While he's blowing me, he rubs on my nipples and chest. Great level of detail he had with his hands. Then we get into a 69. Now I'm not blowing my own horn, but I give great head. So during the course of me blowing him, he stops me at least three times. I love giving pleasure and since I was receiving at the same time, it was great. Seeing him respond to me blowing made him that much more excited, thus making me more excited too.
He then asks if I wanted to fuck him. I had never fucked a guy, so I declined. He knew I hadn't before hand, so he was cool with me not wanting to. We rolled around kissing and touching and jacking each other off for a good amount of time. We finally get to a place where we were both ready to cum. We both get into a good rhythm and I come first. Probably one of the best orgasms I've had in a while. I'm ready for him to cum, so I continue to jack him when he stops me to grab a towel for me. He wipes me up and gives me a final suck. Felt amazing. I continue to jack him until he came. Good explosion for him as well. He wipes himself and he asks if I wanted to take a shower before I "met my friends for dinner." I had plenty of time, so we take a shower together and continued to talk. He washes me all over and I do the same.
We had great conversation afterward and he tells me he comes back in town every couple of weeks if I wanted to do this again. I told him to let me know whenever he's back and we'll go from there. I was a little vague in my answer just because I didn't want to get his hopes up (or mine for that matter) for us hooking up again. We say our goodbyes and I exit the room. As I leave the room, I see a man and woman (obviously a couple) head my way. I automatically felt like I was making the walk of shame down the hallway as I give a nod to the guy. He smiled and gave the same nod. I'm sure he knew what went down, but I didn't care. As I made my way to the lobby, the receptionist gave an extra happy "Have a good night." Of course I wanted to tell her I already did and on to the next part of the good night, but I refrained. I was sure everyone knew what I just did in that hotel room, which is kind of funny to think about. I get to my car and let out a huge laugh. Don't know why. I just felt like laughing.
I make my way down the road to dinner. I was about 15 minutes early, so I just sat in my car and waited. The restaurant was surprisingly empty by the looks of how many cars were in the parking lot. I parked in a position where I could see the door as well as anyone entering the parking lot. Time passes. More time passes. About 20 minutes later, I decided to call Caleb to see if he'd gotten lost. Ring. Ring. Ring. Ring. Ring....
Caleb: "Hey, you here?"
Me: "Yeah, in the parking lot. You're here too?"
Caleb: "Just walked inside."
Me: "Oh, I must have missed you..."
At this point, I'm getting out of the car and he walks outside. Immediately smile at each other and walk inside. Make our way to our seats. I could tell he was a little bit nervous and to be honest, so was I. He was exactly the way he was in his picture. Cute. Not in a "sort of cute, but I'll say cute anyway because I have to be nice when you sent me a pic" but a "better than the picture cute." And his shyness was very cute as well. We make small talk with little awkward moments in between. Don't get me wrong, the moments weren't that awkward. Just small pauses in conversation. I like those moments. Just to see what the recover move or topic is going to be. After a couple drinks in, Caleb becomes more comfortable and we once again, talk about anything and everything. After those drinks and the water I ordered, I had to go to the restroom. And as a guy that knows a little touch goes a long way, I touch his shoulder as I pass him. I get back and we continue conversation.
It was just a solid good first meeting. I don't know what else to say besides that. We pay, get up and head out the door. I ask him what he's doing after this and he said he's going home to crash since he was up all day. (Which I'd already known from talking to him earlier.) I was fine with that, I was ready to go home too. He tells me he had a great time and hoped that he hadn't scared me away. I told him that I don't scare easily and told him that we'd have to do this again soon. He agreed, gave a big hug and we parted ways.
Pretty sure I was on cloud 9 the entire way home. I get in the drive way and I get this text:
"It was great meeting you tonight. I had a really good time. :-)"
I reply: "Hey, just stepped in the door. The feeling is mutual. I had an awesome time. I'm making it my mission to get you to like some type of vegetable! :-)"
He doesn't like vegetables at all. I absolutely love them. I'll get him to love them too.. ha.
Needless to say, we've been texting since then. No plans to meet back up at the moment, but I'm sure it'll happen soon.
I think that's a good enough post for now. Be sure to comment or email me if you want.
- Under Wraps
underwraps87@gmail.com
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Quick Post
Alright, just wanted to keep writing on a regular basis. Its easy to say "I'll blog tomorrow," or "I have nothing to talk about," but that's what your readers what to hear (if you have readers. And I currently have two followers. Thanks for following by the way.) I think I'll just write about the day. I start training and orientation tomorrow at the new job, so I'm excited. Watched the Thursday night line up on NBC, which is always good. Parks and Rec and Whitney are a couple of my favorites. Great writers for those shows. Now, I'm talking to a pretty genuine guy on Grindr. Roots for the same college football team as I, has goals, didn't ask to see my dick. He's being a nice guy. I don't have my hopes up (after all, it's Grindr), but this seems a little different. I'm anxious to write about him a little more, if there is more. I haven't put up any pics of guys yet, that'll be the next post for sure. And I'll let you know how orientation/training goes. Have a great night.
Here's a video of Drake on Chelsea Lately talking about Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne and of course, his music. I love Drake's new album 'Take Care' and plus he's easy on the eyes I think. He's come a long way from being on Disney.
OVOXO
Here's a video of Drake on Chelsea Lately talking about Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne and of course, his music. I love Drake's new album 'Take Care' and plus he's easy on the eyes I think. He's come a long way from being on Disney.
OVOXO
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