100% Wrong: Part II

For any of you who took the 33.33% of me seeing Caleb again one more time then that'd be it.. then you were right. Why only the one time? Let me explain.

I'm on Grindr just seeing who's new to the area (no one by the way) and Caleb appears online. Being the friendly guy that I am, I decided to say hey. We began talking.. I began sweet talking (I don't really mean too, it just comes naturally I guess.) and next thing you know were making dinner plans for that evening. So its decided. 5:30 at a local burger joint I've been wanting to try. Yeah, I really like burgers. So we get there. I began asking how he's been, what's going on in his life.. you know, the typical catch up questions. He's got nothing. Absolutely nothing. Seriously. We talk about his niece for maybe 5 minutes then back to nothingness. Worse date I've ever been on. It's crazy because the first one went so well. Thank God I can handle these types of situations and did so to the best of my ability. But as soon as I signed the receipt (separate checks, of course.) I had to end it. In a nice way of course. We hugged, he held on a little longer than he should have, and we said our goodbyes. I got in my car and literally laughed out loud. It was just so funny to me how date one and sorta date two was completely different. I pull up to my place and I get this text:

"I'm like in a state of blissful shock from how awesome that burger was. It was great to see you again. Thanks for meeting up tonight! :)"

I wanted to say:

"I wished the date was as great as the burger. Have a good one!"

But I was really nice, almost too nice and said:

"Baha! That's an awesome state to be in. Hey, no problem! Great seeing you too."

Got the absolute closure needed for this guy. It really does take going through the valleys to see the peaks. In this case it takes going on a crappy date to see how awesome Michael is. I need to see him, but we're texting as we speak, so I'm doing fine.

100% Wrong

Hey all, and Happy New Years! I'll see if I can play catch up a bit from my lack of posting. 

If you read the previous post, you'll remember Caleb. If not, I'll give you an abridged version. Cute guy, went on a date. After that, 66.67% of me thought I'd see him again. 33.33% sure we'd see each other another time then that'd be the end. Looks like I'm 100% wrong. Didn't talk, text, whatever. Then, I was bummed. He seemed to be a pretty decent guy with a little quirkiness  I look for. Well, I think he is a pretty decent guy still with that same quirkiness I look for, but I'm fine with not talking to him ever again. But also fine with talking too. I'm not mad at all, it sucks. But it happens. 

I think the reason why I'm so fine with it all is because I've moved on to the next. Happened rather quickly too. We've talked off and on for about 4 months now (I seem to chat off and on with a lot of people. What can I say... I'm a friendly guy) and we met up last Saturday at Starbucks. I usually would brew my own or pick a local spot but I got gift cards for Christmas. Thank you Mom and Dad. Back to the guy. We'll call him Michael. Mike is about 6 foot, about 170, good skin tone, very athletic. He's what we'd call Blatino. Best feature besides his handsome masculine face? Butt. Great muscular ass. He's the first non-white guy I've been attracted to besides celebrities. We have great conversation. Nothing but laughter. We're nothing but smiles the entire time. There were times the conversation turned sexual in which I have to make sure others didn't hear, but a certain part of me didn't care. That's how comfortable I was with him. He's very cultured, spent time out of the United States for school and you can tell a little in his cute accent. Cares a lot about his family, which is the reason he's back in the States. He's not out and doesn't plan to be for a while, same as I. After we parted ways, I just had to sit in my car for a bit and take it all in. Great evening, and even better evening after watching my team win their football game.

Weekend Update: Friday's Double Feature

Friday. Friday. Gotta get down on Friday.

I couldn't resist. Orientation with the new job that morning. I'm excited about the position and I start on Monday. More on the guy that I told you about in my last post. He deserves a name...I'll go with Caleb. Caleb and I have been talking on a regular basis for the past 4-5 days. Honestly, he has been reason why I even log on to Grindr. So we're chatting and I ask if he'd want to meet up. Not for anything sexual, but just somewhere to talk to him more. I've seen his face and at this point, he'd not seen me at all. He says yes and we figure out a place to meet. After all that talk, he asks if I could send a picture of me just so he'd recognize me once we met at the restaurant. I felt really comfortable with him, and was more than happy to send him a pic. We talk for a little more, then he had to log off so he can visit with his family in town. I log off as well, then took a nap, just so more time could pass until that evening... I woke up really horny and decided to log back on to Grindr to see if I could have a little fun before dinner. Now in hindsight, that probably makes me seem like a whore, but I don't care. Just a horny young guy living my life as I want to.

As soon as I log on, I spotted a picture of a guy flexing his bicep. Started chatting him up and we agree to meet at his hotel (conveniently three miles away from where I was meeting Caleb for dinner.) He was an older guy, but very handsome and sexy for his age. As I was driving to the hotel, I started to wonder about what the hell I was doing. There were multiple times during the drive over I had second thoughts.

"Is this guy gonna hurt me? Do I tell Caleb about this? This is going to be an interesting evening, can't wait to blog about this!"

Alright, so I wasn't all nervous. But enough to where I brought a knife with me just in case this guy tried something crazy. Hey, I gotta be safe in more ways than one.. right? He texts me the room number as I pull in the parking lot. I make my way in and head to the elevator. Get to the fourth floor, knock on the door. He took a little bit to answer, and for some reason I thought,

"I wonder if this is a undercover sting operation? Oh wait, there was no money involved, I'm good."

He opens and he's just as I described. I take my jacket off on the couch, make our way to the bed and just talk for a bit. Talked about the upcoming big game on Saturday, the NBA season, what he does (attorney), what I will be doing, etc. Then we get a little touchy-feely. Touching leads to kissing, leading back to touching. Touching to clothes coming off. He was a great kisser, something that seems to be a little hard to find. At least for me it is. At this point we're down to underwear. He kisses and licks all the way south and I'm hard as a rock at this point. He begins blowing me. He was a little rough at first until I had to coach him a little. While he's blowing me, he rubs on my nipples and chest. Great level of detail he had with his hands. Then we get into a 69. Now I'm not blowing my own horn, but I give great head. So during the course of me blowing him, he stops me at least three times. I love giving pleasure and since I was receiving at the same time, it was great. Seeing him respond to me blowing made him that much more excited, thus making me more excited too.

He then asks if I wanted to fuck him. I had never fucked a guy, so I declined. He knew I hadn't before hand, so he was cool with me not wanting to. We rolled around kissing and touching and jacking each other off for a good amount of time. We finally get to a place where we were both ready to cum. We both get into a good rhythm and I come first. Probably one of the best orgasms I've had in a while. I'm ready for him to cum, so I continue to jack him when he stops me to grab a towel for me. He wipes me up and gives me a final suck. Felt amazing. I continue to jack him until he came. Good explosion for him as well. He wipes himself and he asks if I wanted to take a shower before I "met my friends for dinner." I had plenty of time, so we take a shower together and continued to talk. He washes me all over and I do the same.

We had great conversation afterward and he tells me he comes back in town every couple of weeks if I wanted to do this again. I told him to let me know whenever he's back and we'll go from there. I was a little vague in my answer just because I  didn't want to get his hopes up (or mine for that matter) for us hooking up again. We say our goodbyes and I exit the room. As I leave the room, I see a man and woman (obviously a couple) head my way. I automatically felt like I was making the walk of shame down the hallway as I give a nod to the guy. He smiled and gave the same nod. I'm sure he knew what went down, but I didn't care. As I made my way to the lobby, the receptionist gave an extra happy "Have a good night." Of course I wanted to tell her I already did and on to the next part of the good night, but I refrained. I was sure everyone knew what I just did in that hotel room, which is kind of funny to think about. I get to my car and let out a huge laugh.  Don't know why. I just felt like laughing.

I make my way down the road to dinner. I was about 15 minutes early, so I just sat in my car and waited.  The restaurant was surprisingly empty by the looks of how many cars were in the parking lot. I parked in a position where I could see the door as well as anyone entering the parking lot. Time passes. More time passes. About 20 minutes later, I decided to call Caleb to see if he'd gotten lost. Ring. Ring. Ring. Ring. Ring....

Caleb: "Hey, you here?"
Me: "Yeah, in the parking lot. You're here too?"
Caleb: "Just walked inside."
Me: "Oh, I must have missed you..."

At this point, I'm getting out of the car and he walks outside. Immediately smile at each other and walk inside. Make our way to our seats. I could tell he was a little bit nervous and to be honest, so was I. He was exactly the way he was in his picture. Cute. Not in a "sort of cute, but I'll say cute anyway because I have to be nice when you sent me a pic" but a "better than the picture cute." And his shyness was very cute as well. We make small talk with little awkward moments in between. Don't get me wrong, the moments weren't that awkward. Just small pauses in conversation. I like those moments. Just to see what the recover move or topic is going to be. After a couple drinks in, Caleb becomes more comfortable and we once again, talk about anything and everything. After those drinks and the water I ordered, I had to go to the restroom. And as a guy that knows a little touch goes a long way, I touch his shoulder as I pass him. I get back and we continue conversation.

It was just a solid good first meeting. I don't know what else to say besides that. We pay, get up and head out the door. I ask him what he's doing after this and he said he's going home to crash since he was up all day. (Which I'd already known from talking to him earlier.) I was fine with that, I was ready to go home too. He tells me he had a great time and hoped that he hadn't scared me away. I told him that I don't scare easily and told him that we'd have to do this again soon. He agreed, gave a big hug and we parted ways.

Pretty sure I was on cloud 9 the entire way home. I get in the drive way and I get this text:

"It was great meeting you tonight. I had a really good time. :-)"

I reply: "Hey, just stepped in the door. The feeling is mutual. I had an awesome time. I'm making it my mission to get you to like some type of vegetable! :-)"

He doesn't like vegetables at all. I absolutely love them. I'll get him to love them too.. ha.

Needless to say, we've been texting since then. No plans to meet back up at the moment, but I'm sure it'll happen soon.

I think that's a good enough post for now. Be sure to comment or email me if you want.

- Under Wraps
underwraps87@gmail.com

Guys on Grindr

Alright, I've been checking out Grindr lately and I want to give a small rundown of the potential that's in my city. I'm pretty much looking for masculine, active guys who are cool to hang around. And every once in a while, a hook up. Pretty general description, but it's a case-by-case type deal. Why be so specific? Plus, the guys have been pretty revealing on their own, so I've been able to weed out the crazies.. sort of. These are in no particular order. This is more for me to type out my thoughts -- should be fun.

A -- Raised in small town town. Has a bit of country in his voice, and I love it. Has unconventional work, but is the most down to earth. He was fine with me not giving out a face pic right off the bat and actually gave his out to make me feel comfortable. He's 31, but doesn't look it at all. Met up with him one night and talked for a good amount of time about everything. Eventually, we messed around a bit. Definitely a fun evening. We talked a bit about meeting up again, but he's really busy with work and we both have roommates, so it makes it difficult. I'm starting to have mixed feelings about him seeing has how we haven't talked as much as I'd like. I don't want to pressure anything, but I also want to hang out with him.

J -- Also raised in a smaller town than A. Is 26 and is a elementary teacher. We've texted for about a week before we met up. Really easy to talk to as well. He also has a roommate. So when we met up, I drove to his house, snuck in his room and we started a movie.. didn't end up finishing the movie due to a bed and two horny guys being in it, but I've seen it before. Another fun evening. We met up for a second time and we just watched a movie and cuddled. It was really nice to finally have a feeling like that where I can just lay back, watch a movie with a guy and feel completely fine. Great head on his shoulders, down to earth and is active. He's a big lake guy. He grew up on it. Problem is he's a little feminine. Haven't been able to see mannerisms yet, but I can just tell. I'm sure there will be more on him later.

There are other guys, but I haven't talked to them much, nor have I seen their faces. I'm reserved about giving out face pics due to me not being out and the gay community in this city all seem to know each other. Some of them just want to hook up and I admit, I'm down for the occasional hook up. As I continue blogging, you'll get to hear about those guys.

You guys can email me at underwraps87@gmail.com. I check it pretty regularly, so feel free to ask questions.

-UW